Why the Best Family Photos Aren’t Always the “Perfect” Ones

When most people think about family photos, they imagine everyone dressed in coordinated outfits, smiling perfectly at the camera. And while there’s nothing wrong with having a few classic, posed shots, I want to let you in on a little secret: the real magic often happens in the in-between moments.

As a family photographer, I’ve learned that some of the most cherished photos are the ones where no one is looking at the camera… because those are the moments that tell your family’s story.

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Real Moments, Real Memories

Kids don’t stay little forever. They have giggles that bubble up out of nowhere, snuggles that melt your heart, and silly faces they only make when they think no one’s watching. Those are the moments you’ll want to remember years from now—not just the perfectly posed smile.

When you let go of perfection, your photos reflect real life: the laughter, the hugs, the soft glances between parents, the tiny hands grabbing for mom’s hair, or the toddler running through the grass with wild abandon. These moments bring out authentic emotions you’ll treasure forever.

A Stress-Free Experience

Parents often tell me they feel pressure for everyone to “behave” during family photos. But here’s the thing: your kids don’t have to sit perfectly still or smile on cue. In fact, I love when sessions feel a little messy and full of personality.

When we let kids be themselves, your family can relax and actually have fun—and that’s when we get those gorgeous, candid shots that make your heart swell every time you see them.

The Perfect Mix

I always make sure to capture a few classic, posed photos for you to frame and share with family. But the majority of your session will focus on creating authentic moments—tickle fights, walking hand-in-hand, or cuddling in the golden hour sunlight.

These images tell the story of who your family really is. Years from now, you’ll look back and not only see what your family looked like, but remember exactly how it felt to be there in that moment.

Let’s Capture the Real Stuff

If you’re ready for a photo session filled with laughter, connection, and real memories, I’d love to make it happen. Together, we can create images that go beyond posed smiles and showcase the beautiful, messy, real life you’re living right now.

Book your session at elandemphoto.com and let’s tell your family’s story—perfect smiles not required.

El and Em Photography is located in Troy, MI and specializes in maternity, newborn, motherhood, milestone and family photography. My tiny clients come to my home studio for their sessions from all over the metro Detroit area including: Rochester, Troy, Birmingham, Detroit, Ferndale, Royal Oak, Clawson, Bloomfield, Oak Park, Sterling Heights, Madison Heights, Warren, Southfield, Auburn Hills and more. Michigan Motherhood Photographer.